Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Stress, Community, and Friendship

Be at rest once more, O my soul,
for the Lord has been good to you. 
Ps. 116: 7

I have been reading an interesting book on the consequences of stress on the human body.  In particular, the author was commenting on the relationship between bad stress, which raised various "flight or fight" hormones in the body, and heart disease.  He argued that feeling trapped in a job or a situation where you feel powerless leads to increased stress chemicals in the body, which eventually lead to heart disease, strokes, and other major problems (such as death).   To me, all of this makes sense.  The question is how do we avoid such stress?

To begin, we should make some obvious life-style changes.  If you are in a job that makes you feel trapped and not respected, change.  Also, increase your exercise levels as this makes a major positive change in the body's response to stress.  He also recommended the drinking of wine with dinner, as moderate alcohol consumption has been shown to lower the stress chemicals in the body.  If you have listened to the news, all of these positive factors have been mentioned for quite some time even in popular media.  These are changes that we can and should make!

What I found interesting was his emphasis on developing good social networks and friends.  He observed several groups of people with what we would call horrible eating habits who have very low levels of heart disease.  He argued that these people have one thing in common: they are well integrated into a community where they have love, support, and fun.  

In the past thirty years, studies have shown that Americans increasingly are not integrated into authentic communities.  We isolate ourselves from others while retreating into time with only our families.  I believe we do so to our own harm!  The problem is that friendship and community take time to develop and nurture.  With all the kid's activities, work responsibilities, and general busyness of life, how do we find the time to develop and nurture friendships?

First, we have to admit and confess that we need real friends and community.  We need to ask God to help us find real friends and true community.  Most of us do everything we can to live in denial of our need for others.  We remain so busy, and we allow our children to be part of every activity under the sun so they are not deprived.  Even at church, we go and leave without really engaging people.  This is one great draw of the large church in that it facilitates the "feelings" of having many friends and fellow travelers without causing real engagement with others.  I believe it is also the draw of Facebook and other social networks that promote "connectedness" without really helping us connect.  We need real friends!

Second, we have to be intentional in searching for friendships and community.  We have to find people that we can "be ourselves" around.  Wow is this hard!  Where would we find such people?  How about in our church communities?  This presupposes that we will develop church communities that are not fake or shallow.  Places where it is O.K. to be known with all of our issues, needs, and strengths.  We will find people in these churches that we do not "click with," but we should continue to search until we find folks who will love us and relate to us where we are.  Again, ask God for wisdom in finding friends and companionship!

Third, we have to continue to develop and nurture friendships and community.  This takes commitment on our part and on our friends part.  Get together and laugh.  Enjoy time together not necessarily "doing stuff" but being.  I think this is becoming a lost art.  True friendship and community is found in spending time.  In today's age, time is our most precious commodity.  We horde it to our own detriment.  Spend time with friends and lower your chances of heart disease!

With that in mind, I am thankful for a week of rest in the midst of the holidays.  Time with friends.  Time to laugh.  Time to be myself.  I pray each of us enjoy these same blessings!

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Discipleship, Counseling, and the Pastoral Calling




In our hyper therapeutic milieu, people want professionals to do something to them to make them feel better.  Living through life, meeting the demands of following Jesus, living under the lordship of of holy God doesn't appeal to the general public these days.  The majority of Americans will tell any pollster that they believe in the Ten Commandments.  But only a small percentage of those people could even recite the Ten Commandments, and even a smaller percentage have any genuine interest in following them.

For me, trying to be a counselor is a shortcut.  It is pandering to my people's desires to have me do something to them rather than admonish them to live through the thick forest of their lives by following Christ in discipleship.

Since I do discipleship instead of counseling, I find I have a fair amount of free time on my hands, time I can spend praying.
David Hansen, The Art of Pastoring: Ministry without all the Answers, 72.


As a Christian leader, I am called to come alongside people to help them grow back toward an intimate and perfect relationship with God.  The closer I can get them to this place, the better a job I have done.  Of course, I cannot do any of it without the grace and mercy of the Lord!  Yet, I am called to be a herald that points people to a life of repentance and faith in Jesus.

That being said, I agree with Hansen that when I engage in "counseling" I am selling my life, calling, and job short.

Why?

I think it has to do with more with false expectations than there being something wrong with professional counseling.  My purpose is not to put down professional counseling.  I know and believe that professional counseling has an important place in the Kingdom.  Professional counselors help folks identify and break the stranglehold of the past.

The human mind and heart is like a finely tuned instrument.  At times and in certain people, the tuning has been damaged by others or by something dramatic in the past.  This damage works out in ungodly thoughts, actions, habits, and personalities.  It can also cause very real physical damage to the pathways of the brain.  Thus, there are valid counseling techniques and procedures that can help identity and sometimes fix the mistuned instrument.  I am thankful for folks trained in these specialties.

Yet, I must admit that I am not a professional counselor.   I am not called nor qualified to engage in such a ministry.  As a pastor, when I sense someone needs professional help beyond may calling in the gospel, I refer them immediately.

So, why do I think counseling is deadly to the pastoral office and calling?  I believe much of the problem is cultural.  In the West, we want to be fixed.  Some folks are too cheap to go to a professional counselor, so they figure they will hit up the pastor because pastors are free.

For many pastors, being needed in this way makes them feel important.  It becomes their identity.  It is the stamp of approval for ministry.  I believe such thinking is wrongheaded.

Please understand it is not because our message lacks power!  The great irony is that pastors have much to offer folks.  We have the truth found in the gospel, and we have the Holy Spirit who can transform hearts and minds.  Yet, when folks come to be fixed by pastoral counseling, they often want a tip, technique, or advice instead of the repentance and faith found in the gospel.  

In other words, Hansen is completely right that in our hyper therapeutic setting, most people want to feel better, and they want me/pastors to do it to them (perhaps magically?), instead of wanting intimacy with God that comes from honest repentance and faith.

What is my task?

I am called to remind folks that they are not God.  There is only one God in the universe and He should receive the glory in our lives, in the Church, and in the world.

What does this mean?

God's purpose is not our direct and immediate happiness.  God's purpose is that we might come to know Him and enjoy Him forever.  Much of the time, particularly in immature believers, a person's direct happiness and the will of God are not the same.  Our greatest need runs so contrary to what we think will bring happiness.  It feels like death when we confess and declare our need to repent of telling God, "My will be done."  While true life is found in the pathway of discipleship that declares to self and God "Thy will be done," it is often not something that brings an immature believer immediate "happiness."

The great irony is that the path of true discipleship does bring deep-seated joy and  transformation.  It is the key to authentic living!  Yet, few really want to hear it.  Why?  True discipleship also confesses there will be- no there must be- pain and difficulty in our life in this fallen world.  Honestly, who wants to hear such talk?

As a pastor or ministry leader, when I become more concerned with making someone happy than in encouraging them to grow in repentance and faith, I am selling out my calling.  Much of what passes for pastoral counseling fails because the expectation of the relationship is one of "fixing" and "bring happiness" in the midst of distress.

I think most in the churches I have served know this about me.  Thus, those who want to walk with God are attracted while those who wish "happiness" leave me alone.  Unfortunately (or fortunately?), like Hansen states, this leaves me with much time to pray!

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Do Dogs go to Heaven?

Yesterday was a very sad day for me.  It was a sad day for the family.  Our faithful golden retriever, Perseus, died.  I believe I have not been so sad since my dad's death 13 years ago!

In my years of ministry, I have had three different parishioners come to my church because they were grieving the loss of their beloved pet.  I could understand and I offered words of encouragement and prayers for comfort, but I had not experienced it myself.  

It is not like our family had not experienced the death of pets.  We lived on a farm.  We harvested animals, had many barn cats that met unfortunate ends, and even lost a previous dog.

The difference is that we loved this old boy!  He was an awesome, faithful dog.  When we went to pick him out, he came running out to us, picked up a ball, and played with our then two young children.  The breeder was surprised because as other puppies had been picked, Perseus was always laying around and did not engage other families.  In other words, Perseus chose us.

When he got home, he missed his mother so he whined that first night.  We were living in an apartment, and my wife said, "You are the one who wanted a golden retriever, do something."  

I took him and placed him on my chest so he could hear my heart.  He immediately quieted down, fell asleep, and when I awoke in the morning he was still sleeping comfortably.  From that moment on, he was my dog.  

When I left for speaking engagements or travel, he moped and did not eat until I returned.  He slept on the floor beside me for 13 years.  It took less than 24 hours to house train him, and he would prefer to die of shame than ever make a mess.  He was smart enough that I could point to where I wanted him to do his business, and he would go where I pointed.

I will miss his loving look.  I often shared that men get married so they can see that look of love and devotion in their wife's eyes.  When reality hits and that look stops, they buy a golden retriever so they can have it every day!

He definitely had his quirks.

When he was two or three, lightning hit a tree right behind our home and he got shocked.  From then on, he was not the brave dog of his youth.  He went through most doors backwards.  It was strange seeing an 80 pound dog back up all the time.  He became afraid of loud noises.  He was cautious in new places.  

All of this was ok.  It just made Perseus, Perseus.

We knew he was dying, but when he experienced something catastrophic on Monday, it was still sad.  The end came too soon!  By Tuesday he could not walk.  He did not whimper or whine.  He just gave me the look of please do something.  I am so thankful that we had a vet come to the house to help with the passing.  He went to his final living sleep while looking at me without the stress of being carried into a vet.  He would have had it no other way.

So, do dogs go to heaven?

I have been thinking about this for years.  I believe that some do and some don't.  Kind of like people.  Some have a good heart.  Some have a self-centered and cruel heart.

I think C.S. Lewis was onto something when he portrayed Narnia as populated with animals.  Some have trusting and good souls and some do not.  God knows.  He judges them accurately.

I know that my life was better because I loved this dog and he loved me.  I anticipate that on my dying day, I will be met by Jesus, those who have gone before me that I loved dearly, and a young, unafraid Perseus.  They will be my greeting party.  As I feel the loss so keenly now, I look forward to that day!

Farewell for now my friend!


This Monday


With our now five year old Lily in the background





Not so sure about the water!  He was a strange retriever!


Helping Lily feel welcome

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Declaring the Kingdom

Whoever receives you receives me, and whoever receives me receives him who sent me.
The one who receives a prophet because he is a prophet will receive a prophet's reward,
and the one who receives a righteous person because he is a righteous person 
will receive a righteous person's reward.
And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of water because he is a disciple, 
truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.
Matt. 10: 40-42

This passage has puzzled me for years.  What does it mean?

It is tucked into a chapter of Matthew where Jesus sends out his Apostles to learn ministry.  In the context, Jesus gives them a mission with instructions (vss. 5-15).  He then tells them they will face persecution (vss. 16-25), but they should not worry because whoever acknowledges him before men He will acknowledge before the Father (vss. 26-33).  Then he concludes with the promise that He came to bring not peace, but a sword (vss. 34-39).  (This is another tough passage!)  His final instructions are included in our passage.  They are a promise that whoever does receive the disciples will get a reward.

This is one tough passage!  How do we interpret and understand it?

In this passage, the controlling verse is 10:40 "Whoever receives you receives me, and whoever receives me receives him who sent me."  After affirming that His person and message would cause divisions even within families, Jesus promises that those to receive the truth of His person and message will share in the blessings of God.  In other words, receiving the disciples illustrates folks received their message.

Here is where I find the passage extremely interesting.  Why would Jesus say such a thing?

The obvious answer is that His disciples will be telling about and performing miracles to prove the Kingdom of God is here in the person and message of Jesus.  Thus, to receive them means to believe them.  At the very least it means to affirm an openness to listen.  To such openness, Jesus promises blessing and reward.

We are a blessing in society when we live and declare the reality of the Kingdom as we found it in Christ.  Some will be shocked and dismayed by this testimony.  Jesus says fear not for I am with you!  Such a testimony might cause division.  Jesus tells us that such division is part of the game if you wish to be part of the growth of the Kingdom!  He tells us,

"And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.  Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it." 
Matt. 10:38-39.

In other words, why are you protecting your reputation with others and not concerned with your faithfulness to Jesus?  He is worth some division and persecution!  In fact, as we testify to the reality of His Kingdom, we will find true life as we take our reputation from His love for us.

When we declare who Jesus is with love and integrity, most people respond favorably.  Some do not, but most will listen.  Particularly those who know you!  As they listen with openness, God will call some to faith.  The promise of this passage is that you will be a blessing.  You will be salt and light.  

Do you wish your life to count for something in building the Kingdom of God?  Be open to declaring what God has done in Christ!  Fear not for He will go with you!

Monday, January 20, 2014

A God-Centered Life

I love reading biographies, the stories of men like Oswald Chambers, C.S. Lewis, John Knox, Jonathan Edwards, Augustine, Paul, and Jeremiah.  As I read about their lives, I get the impression that our modern ideas about masculine maturity are a far cry from what godly men of earlier generations understood and practiced.

We talk a lot today about things like vulnerability and the courage to feel our pain.  They seemed more interested in worship and witnessing.  We speak of honest communication and living up to our potential.  They fell to their knees in brokenness and got up to serve.  

I wonder if the virtues we try to develop came naturally to those men from years ago whose toughest battles were fought against whatever kept them from knowing Christ. ...

Religious men of today too often have found a convenient God, an immediately useful God promoted by leaders who are filled more by the thrill of adoring crowds than by their opportunity for quiet communion with God....

Men from earlier generations slugged it out in intensely personal battles that lasted for years, battles that lessened only when they abandoned themselves more fully to Christ, not merely when they felt a new passion sweep through them at a big rally or when they discovered some new insight about themselves in therapy.  The joy of finding Christ was released through brokenness over sin, brokenness that led to worshipful abandonment to God.  Knowing Christ intimately developed through a deep work of God's Spirit that took place sometimes in big crowds but more often during long seasons of agonizing prayer in solitude.
Larry Crabb, The Silence of Adam, 30-31.

The difference between a god-centered life and a me-centered life is the difference between true faith and false assurance.

The difference between a God-centered life and a me-centered life is the difference between life changing power and religious pretense.

The difference between a God-centered life and a me-centered life is everything.

The Christian faith call us to a God-centered life.  It is a call to repent of self-worship and turn to worship of God.  A God-centered life is not a one-time decision, but a lifestyle.

What is a God-centered life?

A God-centered life is founded upon true repentance of our sin against God and true faith in Jesus Christ as our only hope.  Such a life is a continual process of repentance and faith.  In fact, as we grow in our knowledge of God and ourselves, we will find ourselves growing in our awareness of our sin leading us to quicker and deeper repentance.

In other words, mature people in Christ will constantly encourage and challenge everyone they meet to walk in such repentance and faith.  They will preach the message of repentance and faith to themselves, to their families, and throughout all of life.  Their life will reflect dependence.

Alas, why is such God-centered living not the norm for those who know Christ?

It runs completely contrary to the way that seems right to us.  It undercuts our pride, our self-effort, our self-assurance, and our self-righteousness.  When these traits are undercut we hate it!

Thus, we have invented a religion that does not lead to brokenness and repentance.  It appeals to the most me-centered parts of our life.  We have baptized and named this religion Christianity.  We assurance ourselves that we must be OK because everyone agrees with us!

Thankfully, God still builds His Church!  He calls us constantly to deeper repentance and faith.  Even now, He calls us to focus our hearts and minds upon Jesus Christ.  He calls us to deeper trust.  He calls us to repent of our self effort and to be broken before Him.

The amazing truth is that after we are broken, He bids us to rise and go tell others of what we have found in Jesus through our words and our deeds.  We will know we have been broken and found grace when we can't help but tell others about it.  We will reflect in our daily worship, which includes our work, that Jesus loves us.

May this week be a blessed time of brokenness and witnessing to God's grace!

Saturday, January 18, 2014

Appalachian Poverty

It is time for a weekend economic thought blog.  I am borrowing this great blog post from Zero Hedge, which is an economic blog I read often.  This post was reposted there today and it is written by Michael Snyder.  I thank him. 
For me, the following post is rather personal.  My family on my dad's side is from the hills and hollers of Appalachia in central West Virginia.  It has been several years since I have been back, but I would say the following post is nothing new.  To say that in Appalachia the last Recession did not end is an understatement.  In my opinion, in central West Virginia, the Great Depression never ended. 
Real poverty is awful.  It is a trap of the soul.  It smells of sin and death.  Real poverty is not trying to make ends meet while having two newer model cars, children in nice clothing, and having to make the sacrifice of not traveling for vacation.  It is a quest for survival.
Please read the following blog post and then ask what should be the Christian response to such defeat and death?

Submitted by Michael Snyder of The Economic Collapse blog,
If you want to get an idea of where the rest of America is heading, just take a trip through the western half of West Virginia and the eastern half of Kentucky some time.  Once you leave the main highways, you will rapidly encounter poverty on a level that is absolutely staggering.  Overall, about 15 percent of the entire nation is under the poverty line, but in some areas of eastern Kentucky, more than 40 percent of the population is living in poverty.  Most of the people would work if they could.  Over the past couple of decades, locals have witnessed businesses and industries leave the region at a steady pace.  When another factory or business shuts down, many of the unemployed do not even realize that their jobs have been shipped overseas.  Coal mining still produces jobs that pay a decent wage, but Barack Obama is doing his very best to kill off that entire industry. After decades of decline, vast stretches of impoverished Appalachia look like they have been through a war.  Those living in the area know that things are not good, but they just try to do the best that they can with what they have.
In previous articles about areas of the country that are economically depressed, I have typically focused on large cities such as Detroit or Camden, New Jersey.  But the economic suffering that is taking place in rural communities in the heartland of America is just as tragic.  We just don't hear about it as much.
Most of those that live in the heart of Appalachia are really good "salt of the earth" people that just want to work hard and do what is right for their families.  But after decades of increasing poverty, the entire region has been transformed into an economic nightmare that never seems to end.  The following is a description of what life is like in Appalachia today that comes from a recent article by Kevin D. Williamson...
Thinking about the future here and its bleak prospects is not much fun at all, so instead of too much black-minded introspection you have the pills and the dope, the morning beers, the endless scratch-off lotto cards, healing meetings up on the hill, the federally funded ritual of trading cases of food-stamp Pepsi for packs of Kentucky’s Best cigarettes and good old hard currency, tall piles of gas-station nachos, the occasional blast of meth, Narcotics Anonymous meetings, petty crime, the draw, the recreational making and surgical unmaking of teenaged mothers, and death: Life expectancies are short — the typical man here dies well over a decade earlier than does a man in Fairfax County, Va. — and they are getting shorter, women’s life expectancy having declined by nearly 1.1 percent from 1987 to 2007.
In these kinds of conditions, people do whatever they have to do just to survive.  With so much poverty around, serving those on food stamps has become an important part of the local economy.  In fact, cases of soda purchased with food stamps have become a form of "alternative currency" in the region.  In his article, Williamson described how this works...
It works like this: Once a month, the debit-card accounts of those receiving what we still call food stamps are credited with a few hundred dollars — about $500 for a family of four, on average — which are immediately converted into a unit of exchange, in this case cases of soda. On the day when accounts are credited, local establishments accepting EBT cards — and all across the Big White Ghetto, “We Accept Food Stamps” is the new E pluribus unum – are swamped with locals using their public benefits to buy cases and cases — reports put the number at 30 to 40 cases for some buyers — of soda. Those cases of soda then either go on to another retailer, who buys them at 50 cents on the dollar, in effect laundering those $500 in monthly benefits into $250 in cash — a considerably worse rate than your typical organized-crime money launderer offers — or else they go into the local black-market economy, where they can be used as currency in such ventures as the dealing of unauthorized prescription painkillers — by “pillbillies,” as they are known at the sympathetic establishments in Florida that do so much business with Kentucky and West Virginia that the relevant interstate bus service is nicknamed the “OxyContin Express.” A woman who is intimately familiar with the local drug economy suggests that the exchange rate between sexual favors and cases of pop — some dealers will accept either — is about 1:1, meaning that the value of a woman in the local prescription-drug economy is about $12.99 at Walmart prices.
I would encourage everyone to read the rest of Williamson's excellent article.  You can find the entire article right here.
In Appalachia, the abuse of alcohol, meth and other legal and illegal drugs is significantly higher than in the U.S. population as a whole.  In a desperate attempt to deal with the pain of their lives, many people living in the region are looking for anything that will allow them to "escape" for a little while.  The following is an excerpt from an excellent article by Chris Hedges which describes what life is like in the little town of Gary, West Virginia at this point...
Joe and I are sitting in the Tug River Health Clinic in Gary with a registered nurse who does not want her name used. The clinic handles federal and state black lung applications. It runs a program for those addicted to prescription pills. It also handles what in the local vernacular is known as “the crazy check” -- payments obtained for mental illness from Medicaid or SSI -- a vital source of income for those whose five years of welfare payments have run out. Doctors willing to diagnose a patient as mentally ill are important to economic survival.

“They come in and want to be diagnosed as soon as they can for the crazy check,” the nurse says. “They will insist to us they are crazy. They will tell us, ‘I know I’m not right.’ People here are very resigned. They will avoid working by being diagnosed as crazy.”

The reliance on government checks, and a vast array of painkillers and opiates, has turned towns like Gary into modern opium dens. The painkillers OxyContin, fentanyl -- 80 times stronger than morphine -- Lortab, as well as a wide variety of anti-anxiety medications such as Xanax, are widely abused. Many top off their daily cocktail of painkillers at night with sleeping pills and muscle relaxants. And for fun, addicts, especially the young, hold “pharm parties,” in which they combine their pills in a bowl, scoop out handfuls of medication, swallow them, and wait to feel the result.
Of course this kind of thing is not just happening in the heart of Appalachia.  All over the country there are rural communities that are economically depressed.  In fact, according to the Wall Street Journal, economic activity in about half of the counties in the entire nation is still below pre-recession levels...
About half of the nation’s 3,069 county economies are still short of their prerecession economic output, reflecting the uneven economic recovery,according to a new report from the National Association of Counties.
So what are our "leaders" doing to fix this?
Well, they plan to ship millions more of our good jobs overseas.
Unfortunately, I am not kidding.
Republicans in the House of Representatives are introducing "fast track" trade promotion authority legislation that will pave the way for rapid approval of the secret trade treaty that Barack Obama has been negotiating.  The following is how I described this insidious treaty in a previous article...
Did you know that the Obama administration is negotiating a super secret "trade agreement" that is so sensitive that he isn't even allowing members of Congress to see it?  The Trans-Pacific Partnership is being called the "NAFTA of the Pacific" and "NAFTA on steroids", but the truth is that it is so much more than just a trade agreement.  This treaty has 29 chapters, but only 5 of them have to do with trade.  Most Americans don't realize this, but this treaty will fundamentally change our laws regarding Internet freedom, health care, the trading of derivatives, copyright issues, food safety, environmental standards, civil liberties and so much more.  It will also merge the United States far more deeply into the emerging one world economic system.
Once again, our politicians are betraying the American people and millions of jobs will be lost as a result.
Not that the economy needs another reason to go downhill.  The truth is that our economic foundations have already been rotting away for quite some time.
But now the ongoing economic collapse seems to be picking up steam again.  For example, the Baltic Dry Index (a very important indicator of global economic activity) is collapsing at a rate not seen since the great financial crash of 2008...
Despite 'blaming' the drop in the cost of dry bulk shipping on Colombian coal restrictions, it seems increasingly clear that the 40% collapse in the Baltic Dry Index since the start of the year is more than just that. While this is the worst start to a year in over 30 years, the scale of this meltdown is only matched by the total devastation that occurred in Q3 2008. Of course, the mainstream media will continue to ignore this dour index until it decides to rise once again, but for now, 9 days in a row of plunging prices is yet another canary in the global trade coalmine and suggests what inventory stacking that occurred in Q3/4 2013 is anything but sustained.
Soon economic conditions will get even worse for Appalachia and for the rest of the country.  The consequences of decades of very foolish decisions are rapidly catching up with us, and millions upon millions of Americans are going to experience immense economic pain during the years to come.

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

The Weeds in the Field of Grace

"Be on guard for yourselves and for all the flock, 
among which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers, 
to shepherd the Church of God which He purchased with His own blood.  
I know that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you, 
not sparing the flock;
and from among your own selves men will arise, speaking perverse things, to draw away the disciples after them."
Acts 20: 28-30

What does this mean?

The Ephesian church leaders had among themselves those who would lead the church astray.  How is this possible?  Did not Paul train them and help install them?  Yes.  Right after Paul made this statement, did not these same leaders kneel down and pray with Paul?  Yes they did.

"By their fruits you will recognize them." 
Matt 7:20.  

In life and ministry it matters how you run the race and how you finish.

The Christian life is meant to be a life marked by dependent faith in Christ.  It is marked by authentic humility expressed in repentance and faith.  Have you noticed how often church leadership is not marked by these traits?  In particular, leadership that goes wrong is not marked by these traits!

Living in a fallen world means that we must always be on guard against the schemes of the evil one.  He is a liar, a murderer (the root of all anger, jealousy, lack of love), and a pretender to authentic grace.  His schemes include placing false assurance into the hearts of some in hope that they will later wreck the mission and testimony of the church through their pride.

Again I ask, what does this mean?  Should we not join a church since it might be a mixed crew?  No!  It is important to join a church.  

Joining the church means willingly submitting to the order and authority of the local church.  It does not mean that you will agree with every decision made by the church, but that you will work to maintain the peace and purity of the church through healthy discussion, quick repentance when you wrong someone, and quick forgiveness when wronged.  It means that you willingly allow the Elders to speak the gospel into your life.  Most importantly, it also means that you are willingly ingrafted into the a local expression of the body of Christ.  It was an assumed condition for the Jews of Jesus' time.  It is important!

Yet, we should not be surprised or shocked when the behavior of others turns ugly.  We live in a fallen world!  We should not allow ugly behavior to continue in the name of being nice.  If we do so, we are encouraging and allowing evil.  We should lovingly confront and encourage repentance and faith.  Often the response will be repentance.  It might take time, but it will be so.  

Other times the response will be a striking out at you for mentioning their sin.

Does this surprise you?

Remember we live in a fallen world.  By their fruits you will recognize them.  One who refuses to repent from obvious sin should be treated as an unbeliever.  In other words, they need to hear the gospel.  Repentance, faith, trust in Christ, confession of sin, and walking in grace and truth should be lovingly proclaimed and announced.

The Church is God's wonderful means of grace into this fallen world.  We are to model dependent faith upon Jesus.  We do not have it all together, but we point to and follow the One who does.  May the Lord purify and refine His bride to reflect and illustrate such dependent, repentant faith.

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Hearing God's Will

"Prepare plans by consultation,
and make war by wise guidance" 
Proverbs 20:19

How do we hear God's still small voice?

Many of us want to know God, and we want to do what God wants us to do.  Yet, in the messiness and difficulty of life, how do we know His perfect and pleasing will?

How do we do hear God's still small voice?  

First and foremost, we need to saturate our life in the Word of God and prayer.  The Word of God is His revealed will for us.  It contains His perfect guidance on life and practice in this world.  If we do not know it, we will often stumble through life like blind men without any guidance.  

Notice I added prayer as part of the first step to gaining wisdom.  Why?  Prayer is a learned discipline.  It is learning how to communicate with God.  Notice I said communicate!  It is not just us bringing a laundry list of requests.  It is also listening.

How do we do this?  I find it is best to talk with God with His Word open in my lap so as I read, God can impress upon my spirit what I need to know or remember.  

How does this work?

Well, sometimes I am dealing with a particular issue- let's say someone who is hard to deal with.  Let's say they were just plain ornery to me!  I cannot understand why they are difficult.  As I am praying about the situation and reading in the Psalms, I will run into a passage on the "wrath of my enemies."  It is like a light coming on!  The Lord impresses upon my spirit that this person is angry.  I pray for them.  As I pray the Lord guides me to pray for their work situation.  As I talk with the person over the next few weeks, I ask, "How's it going at work?"  They tell me about the unfair treatment they are receiving from their boss.  See, the issue wasn't that they were mad at me.  They were struggling.  If I had not taken time to pray about it with the Word of God open, I might have handled it in a totally different manner!

It seems to me that we rarely have the same situation twice.  Yet, we have God's principles and Word that are eternal.  Taking what we know, or what we should know, and applying it is the heart of wisdom.  

What happens when we mess things us?

Please understand that such times need to be times of learning, not times to merely beat ourselves up for being stupid!  Repent, talk with God about with the scriptures open, reflect on what went wrong, and ask for wisdom on living the truth better next time.  There is also no reason to hide from God or to think we need to do some form of "penance" before we can be right with God again.  Repent quickly, believe the gospel, and move on!

A second way to gain wisdom is to find wise people to ask for advice.  In fact, I often hear the voice of the Lord through the mouthpiece of others.  Sometimes, God's wisdom even comes from and through those who are not so wise!  

How?  What I do is try to listen.  Boy is this hard for those of us who like to talk.  It has taken years for me to learn how to do this.  As I listen, I pray for wisdom and the person I am listening to.  I often find that people will say something that brings to mind my thoughts from earlier in the day or week.  They might clarify what I was reading and thinking about from God's word.  Yet, when I hear it, I just seem to know it is the Spirit of God speaking through these folks.

One word of caution, though I could give many.  All to often, listening to wise people is a step which we in the West have particular struggles.  We are so individualistic that we shy away from asking for advice, particularly from people that are wise!  Even if we get it, some of us are so prideful that we will not take it because we did not come up with it ourselves.  In the past few years, I have heard this reasoning more times than I care to mention.  Remember, if the Lord can speak through a donkey, He can use anyone to speak His will! (Numbers 22:28)

We need to know that God has granted some people a special degree of wisdom.  They can cut to the heart of the matter and help us see what we need to do.  As individuals and churches, we need to locate and encourage these people for leadership!  We should search them out and inquire of their opinions.  Make sure they can explain what they are advising as coming from Biblical principles.  Then listen and try to implement what they recommend.  If we do, even the unreflective among us can walk in wisdom (if we will just listen!).

May the Lord help us to grow in grace and wisdom!

Monday, January 13, 2014

Our Prophetic Role

"A prophet is not without honor, except in his hometown and 
among his relatives and in his own household."
Jesus, Mark 6: 4 

I have been enjoying reading the OT every morning.  Reading the major and minor prophets is truly educating when you know the rest of the story of redemption.  One thing I have learned is that if I could go back in time and be any occupation or calling, I surely would not wish to be a prophet.

Why?

Jesus says prophets have some honor.  I believe this is true.  Yet, they also had a difficult time because all too often people did not listen to their warnings.  As you read the OT, so many of the prophets were rejected, denied, and maligned as false.  So were the apostles.  In fact, so was Jesus.

Why?

Who really wants to hear the message that we need to repent and believe in God?  It runs counter to our nature.  We would prefer to hear, "You are doing great!  Keep up the good work!  God is so pleased with you that you do not need to change anything!"  

I know I love these messages.  I cannot deny it.  I love being told how great I am doing.  My guess is that most of us love that message!  Fortunately or unfortunately, in today's and everyday's religious world, there are plenty of people who will only proclaim this message because they want to be positive.

I can understand wanting to be positive.  I think all of us can.  Yet, what if we really are not doing well?  What if we really do need to change?

Let me give an illustration.  Say you are coaching a basketball team.  They are not really good.  Yet, all you can do is say how great they are, how they will win every game, how everyone will see their greatness.  In fact, the coach doesn't even have them practice hard because they are so good, they don't need it.

Then, when it comes time to perform, they lose by 80 points.  They are completely crushed by the opposition.  They cannot defend.  They cannot run an offense that works.  To make matters worse, they were playing what was known as the worst team around.

In this illustration, the coach lied.  The team will be confused, demoralized, and much less trusting of the coach's "positive" message.  

It would have been better to have known the truth.  

What is the truth?  

As a team, you need work.  What seems right and natural to you needs correcting and refinement.  You need to learn to work together.  You need to work on your conditioning and the fundamentals.  There are still no guarantees of victory; but if you work at it and learn to play like a team, you have a much greater chance for victory.

In fact, after the 80 point loss, it would be good if truth were told by everyone.  We need to work on defense.  We need to work on offense.  The team will only improve if the coach confessed that he did not coach well.  He needs to confess that he lied and he did not prepare them for the battle of a real game.  If the team makes a commitment to turn from their destructive patterns and turn to learning new patterns, they will improve.  They might even win a game by the end of the year!

The role of a prophet is to declare the truth.  Some will accept the message.  Many will deny it.  In fact, some/many will "Be stubborn and continue in unbelief, speaking evil of the Way before the congregation." (Acts 19: 9)

Yet, if we speak for God as His ambassadors, we have no choice but to tell the truth in love.  To do less would be a lie.  To do less would be to follow the father of all lies, which is the devil. (John 8:44)

While I would not wish to be an OT prophet, I do wonder if in our fallen modern world, true believers and true pastors must play the role of prophet?  

Who is equal to such a task?  None, but the Lord will give us strength and grace to carry on!

May the Lord bless this week of life and ministry!


Thursday, January 9, 2014

Our Worldly Fables...

"Have nothing to do with worldly fables…"
1 Timothy 4:7


I love the first thirty minutes to an hour of the day.  For me, it is time to pray, open God's word, read, and listen to God.  I don't hear the term used much anymore, but I love an old-fashioned quiet time.  What is it an why this name?  It is a time of quiet, of resting, and of focusing on God.

Today, I was reading through 1 Timothy chapter 3 and 4.  I often come back to the Pastoral Epistles because they were written for me.  I know they were written from Paul to Timothy, but I always felt like they were written from Paul to me because Timothy and I share a calling.  Thus, we need the same advice.

What are these "worldly fables" that Paul wrote about?

"But the Spirit explicitly says that in the later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful spirits and doctrines of demons, by means of hypocrisy of liars seared in the their own conscience as with a branding iron." (vss. 1-2)

Wow, Paul!  Tell us how you really feel.  

This is harsh.  In the latter days, people will not follow the truth, but they will follow the teachings of falsehood that are encouraged and taught by demons.  I get the feeling that Paul would not be a "go along to get along" type of guy.  He would not affirm and say that truth is relative to culture and individual preference.  

So, what exactly are the worldly fables?

"men who forbid marriage and advocate abstaining from foods, which God has created to be gratefully shared in by those who believe and know the truth." (vs. 3)

Our culture has sought to redefine and de-emphasize marriage.  We argue and believe it is not really important.  "Just live together and get to know each other."  "Marriage is any type of living arrangement agreed to by two parties."  Our tax system is set up to penalize married couples.    At a certain middle class income, it is much cheaper to not be married than to be married.  Obamacare and its mandate with set subsidies tied to income continues this trend.

Am I lying about this?  Is it mere right-wing political propaganda?  I don't think so.  This has nothing to do with politics.  It has to do with truth.  In fact, let me give two prime examples from this week's news as illustrations.

First, a recent court ruling concluded that couples who are merely friends can adopt.  Why?  The institution of marriage between a man and a woman is too restrictive.  It is not "fair" that we define a family as a man and a woman.  It could and should be anyone who wants to adopt.

Of course, while making these cultural decisions we have also made adoption so expensive and difficult that many couples can't afford it.  Why?  For the welfare of the children?  I think not.  More likely it is because we believe the state system is really better.  In the name of "protecting the children" we harm these most vulnerable in society.

Second, the CDC just reported that 40.7% of all babies born last year were born to unmarried women.  Let that sink in.  2 out of every 5 children.  Isn't this great news!  It means that women have been set free from the shackles of life with a man!  Or so our culture claims.  I think Paul might argue that our worldly fable is "abstain from marriage" because it is not important.  There have always been children born out of wedlock and in our fallen world there always will be.  The problem is that in the last thirty years it went from an exception to the rule.  There is no longer any shame to it.  Why?  Marriage is not really important.

I have not even moved toward our cultural desire to regulate what people eat.  No sugary drinks!  No meat!  No candy!  Stop smoking now!

While this might be good advice, could it also be an indicator of our "worldly fables?"  We look down on folks who do not eat and drink what we want them to eat and drink.  It comes so naturally to us.  It is for their own good.  It is for the good of society!

All I ask today is that we think through these cultural assumptions.  According to whose idea of truth  are we believing what we do about marriage and about food?  Our entire culture might say one thing, but if God's word says another then our entire culture is wrong.

Perhaps it is time for each of us to assess the "worldly fables" that we assume to be true.  May God's true Truth abide still in His people.


Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Jesus' Abiding Promise of Faithfulness

And when they say him they worshiped him, but some doubted.  And Jesus came and said to them, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.  Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all the I have commanded you.  And behold, I am with you always to the end of the age."
Matthew 28: 17-20

I would like nothing better and nothing more than to personally see and talk to Jesus.  I think it would be the best experience in the entire universe!

So why do the disciples doubt even after they see and talk with the risen Jesus Christ?  What is happening here?

What did they doubt?  

I do not believe that some doubted Jesus was the Messiah.  After all, they just worshiped him!  Such a theory does not fit the context.  I think a clue to Matthew's intent is found in what Jesus does next.

Immediately after the confession of their doubt, Matthew records that Jesus gives the disciples the great commission. "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.  Therefore go and make disciples..."

I think these early Christ-followers doubted that God could use them.  

Why?  

They had rejected him.  Peter might have been one of the biggest doubters as he had sworn his fidelity to Jesus and then denied him three times in an evening.  These Christ-followers had more questions than answers.  In the last week of Jesus' life, they had fought over who was the greatest.  They no longer had the assurance of Jesus' presence in a physical sense.  From the biblical accounts, it is obvious the risen Jesus did not show up on command.  He had appeared, but when would be the next time?

They were living and believing just like we often do today!  How could Jesus use them?  They were so disappointing.  They were struggling.  They did not have all the answers.  They now did not have Jesus' physical presence.  How could God use them?

"Surely I am with you always, even to the very end of the age."  

Jesus concludes with words of promise and hope.  Words of Grace into the midst of the disciples fear and doubt.  He was not leaving them as orphans!  He would lead them!  He would work in, through, and even in spite of them.  He would use their strengths, their weaknesses, their sin, their doubt, and their times of faith.  He knew their past, but He did not condemn.  He gave a command to go and make disciples sandwiched between the promise of His power and authority (it is really about Him and not us), and his promise of abiding presence.

How can God use you?  How can He use me?  

Real ministry is about trusting in His grace that He can use you even with and in our weaknesses.  His power works through broken vessels (2 Cor. 4:7).  The keys to being used by God are three:

1.) Recognize and confess that we are broken "jars of clay."  Don't put on airs or think your answers will change anything or anyone.  Confess your need for God to work!

2.) Ask God to work through us. Ask Jesus to use you at work, at home, or where ever you find yourself.  Walk in partnership with Him!  Talk with Him about people and situations.

3.) Be open to God's leading.  In other words, have your eyes open to opportunities to love God and neighbor.  Sometimes this means speaking.  Often it just means going out of your way to express love and concern.  As you do this, you will be amazed at the opportunities that will arise to speak about what God has done in your life.

Authentic grace means that God can use people like the disciples, like you, and like me!  Do not fear for Jesus is the risen King!

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Blogging, Curve Balls, and Giving Offense

Life often throws us curves.  I find that things rarely happen as I think they will happen.  When a surprise curve comes, it sometimes makes us rethink our strategy at the plate.  I think this is natural.

Over the course of the fall, I have been personally maligned.  I have been accused of being a liar, and I have been told that I am not really called to ministry.  In fact, I have been informed that I am unqualified to give spiritual direction.  In addition, I have been called arrogant, self-promoting, and someone completely committed to making myself look good.  

This blog has been used as proof.  I did not think it possible to use this material in this manner, but it was done.  As a result, I did not write much that was new and I attempted to stay away from anything that could be seen as controversial.  I did not wish to give reason for offense and I wanted to check to make sure I was not.  In other words, I did not wish to offend my weaker brothers and sisters (Romans 14:13).  I have searched my heart and this blog for what was supposedly personally and professionally offensive.  It has been a good time of growth and the Lord has been so good in speaking to my soul.

What did I conclude?

My time of introspection and my lack of writing because of fear of offending is over.  It is done.  It is time to get back to work.

Today, I declare that I am back as a blogger and writer.  

In life and ministry, people will often not like nor understand what a real pastor does.  This is a fact of life in a fallen world.  That cannot keep us as pastors from being pastors.  If it does, then we have abandoned our calling.  (Same goes for every other professional calling!)

This blog is an extension of my pastoral calling.

Will everyone like or even understand everything I write?  Probably not.  In fact, I often look back at former posts and I do not like what I had to say.  My lack of clarity and my shortsightedness is so apparent.  So what!  The nature of a blog is to write and communicate ideas.  Some might be half-baked.  My hope and prayer is to stimulate thought and action, and I believe the Lord can even use our half-baked ideas to stimulate deeper thinking in ourselves and others.  

Blogging is similar to preaching.  In my 20 years of ministry, I have had people so encouraged that I was preaching to them on a particular Sunday.  I have also had people who were deeply distressed that I would preach at them.  I have to say that in my life, 99% of the time I was not even thinking about these individuals as I prepared or preached the sermon!  Somehow the Lord used it to encourage or to convict.

I believe this blog and my other writing mirror these experiences.

I truly wish to thank you my readers.  I apologize for not writing more over the past couple of months.  I should not have stopped.  Over the past couple of years, my readership has gone from local to worldwide.  It amazes me that in any given hour people from around the world read about the gospel and my thoughts on ministry and life.  Thank you!  

I feel as if I have let you down by not writing.  I apologize for this short-sightedness.  I was thrown a curve and I had to rethink my strategy at the plate.

From this point on, I will continue to write.  I will continue to think, to read, and to reflect so I can organize my thoughts and present something readable.  May the Lord use it to bless.

Please, if you do not like my blog or the topics, ask yourself why.  Do I write something that personally offended you?  Why?  Most likely (99%) of the time, I was not thinking of you personally.  Don't take it so.  If you have questions about my intent or meaning, reply to the a post.  I have many folks who reply and these are moderated by me before being published.  If it is a personal question, I will reply to you but not publish it.

If you are not willing to to that, then I encourage you to stop reading.  I also encourage you to repent of your pride for thinking it was all about you.  Please remember that not everything is about you.  In fact, thank God that not everything is about you!  (As I also must do.  Our need for repentance is universal.)

May the Lord be glorified and lifted up.  May He even use my frail and often incomplete or short-sighted words to bring Himself glory.  May His Kingdom come and His Will be done.




Look at this cool picture from Lake Michigan.  It is surely winter in the USA!